near the cathedral at a bistro in seoul one sunday after mass,

the deacon from burma and i were enjoying a pizza when he asked with shock, 'really? well, how can it be that you aren't married?'

i responded that my bride's bus was late. i am simply waiting (and waiting) for it to arrive.

he was puzzled.  but after explaining to him the brilliance of my humour
(which he did get a kick out of in the end), he responded,

"well, my friend.  in this case, you have nothing to worry about.

because the bus driver
is God."

and i feel like a miraculous healing took place in my heart at that moment.
i gladly add her bus now to the many things i mean when i say to God,

i wait for you o Lord. 
i wait for you. 
i look to you to save and help me.